Take matters into your own hands, be proactive!

 

What your current life looks like depends mainly on you. External factors can be (and often are) beyond your control, but you should take responsibility for your life, for what it looks like.


You are where you are and this is probably a consequence of your choices. Don't stop at what you have achieved so far unless you are completely satisfied with your achievements.


Develop yourself, create new things, be creative. Look for new areas that might interest you, discover what you can and want to be good at, discover your talents that you can use to make money.


Use your head, make a reflection on your life, your achievements. I have found that writing my blog posts and writing my books (I have written three so far) gives me a real satisfaction; writing texts relaxes me.


I have a dream: I want to educate through my blog and my books as many people as possible, I want to try to change people's lives for the better, I want your - dear reader - development.


My dream is not fame or big money from writing activity, but to share my thoughts on personal development in the broadest sense. My motto is: Dare to live, it's YOUR life.


You are the one who creates your life. Remember this and be proactive, not reactive.

Dariusz Łukasik

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