Each of us has a problem, but we can treat it as a challenge.

 I do not believe that there is a single man (or woman) without a problem. Every one of us has some kind of problem, although temporarily it happens that we have no problem at all. Problems are simply part of life, you have to accept that. However, the way we treat problems makes a huge difference to how we feel. We can treat a problem as a challenge to be faced.

A challenge is basically the same as a problem, but by calling a problem a challenge we make it easier to find a solution, we set ourselves up more positively to look for solutions to the problem. For me it makes sense. When I have a problem, I call it a challenge. My current challenge is to learn Italian grammar to language level B2. It is not easy for me to learn this, but it is a challenge for me, I do not call it a problem. I treat this learning as a task that I want to do to improve my language skills.

Dear reader of this blog: if you have a problem, start calling it a challenge - it will make your life and your struggle with it easier and simpler. Set a positive attitude towards the challenge, whatever it is. Life without problems (or challenges) does not exist. Accept that every now and then one problem or another will arise in your life. But don't worry about it, life is about learning, including learning to deal with problems appropriately.

Dare to live. It's YOUR life.

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